Ending Another Year of Blogging

 

On December 30, 2007 , I started writing this blog. It began as a place to share my story, support women diagnosed with ovarian cancer in New Jersey and to raise awareness of the disease. It has developed over time to be a place where I not only share my personal news but also share all aspects of cancer research from bench studies to clinical trial results. I have also reported news about latest treatments after attending oncology meetings.

This year's popular posts were 

Ten Years as a Community and Chat 

ASCO23 Day 4 (6/5/23) Gyn Cancer Posters, Poster Discussion session & Misc topics

The Importance of Obstacles - 18 Years Later

Authoring this blog has opened doors for me in cancer advocacy and I appreciate all of you who have read it through the years. It has been a privilege.

 

Wishing you good health and happiness in 2024!

See you next year.  

 

Dee

Every Day is a Blessing!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Joy and Peace 2023

Today my family and I celebrate Christmas, the birth of Christ. Whether you celebrate Christmas or Hanukkah or Kwanzaa or Diwali or another holiday, I wish you Joy and Peace this Season.  

 

Dee

Every Day is a Blessing! 

Living with a Question Mark and Exclamation Point

The Washington Post recently released an interview with Susan Gubar, ovarian cancer survivor and literary scholar. Susan wrote the book Memoir of a Debulked Women, which I read a number of years ago, as well as a number of New York Times articles about her cancer experience.  This article was titled Survivor reflects on living with cancer and the ambiguity of remission (Nov 11,2023). As I read the article on my phone I thought of the similarities of our experiences. Susan is now 15 years out from her diagnosis.  

When asked about remission she called remission the sword of Damocles. My goodness that is so true. 

She then went on to share how she has been on a drug holiday for the past few years and her Remission? has become a Remission! . Why the switch to an exclamation point? It was because of her gratitude for the unanticipated time with her family. I never thought of Remission! before because for so long I was waiting for the "other shoe to drop". It took me a few years to work through those emotions of going from a person who may have five years of survival( The 5 year survival rate for women diagnosed with late stage ovarian cancer is 30%) to being a ten year survivor and then a  fifteen year survivor  and counting.  

Since I finished treatment for a recurrence on my liver and spleen fourteen years ago, it really has been just that - a time of ! . I have seen my son marry, welcomed two beautiful grandsons into the world and spent time with my husband traveling - Alaska, the National Parks, Fiji, New Zealand,Australia, England. I even got to visit a number of states on my way to visiting all 50 states. 

The extra time for me has also meant using the time for advocacy. It is my way of showing gratitude to my team of physicians and nurses at Rutgers Cancer Institute of New Jersey, to the researchers working to cure gynecologic cancers and also a  way of giving back to my teal sister community for their support. 

The next question Susan was asked dealt with anxiety. She spoke about "scanxiety" - It is a real thing by the way. Her way to handle it is with distractions - new recipes a good book etc. Like Susan, even after eighteen years of yearly check-ups and CA-125 testing, in the two weeks before testing , my world becomes one of doubt and anxiety for what may lie ahead. For those who may not remember,  I had a normal CA-125 (17) and felt good when I actually had lesions on my liver and spleen. So it is no wonder why even if I feel good, I have a feeling of trepidation every September. Now though, my test results appear quickly in my portal. No more waiting days to hear the results. My phone will show a text that there is a new result uploaded to MyChart. I am on reading the results in a matter of minutes. That is a good change since I was first diagnosed. 

If you get a chance read the article to get a better understanding how survivors like Susan and I deal with surviving a cancer diagnosis.

Lastly, I want to once again say how grateful I am for the excellent care I received and still receive at the Rutgers Cancer Institute of New Jersey. 

Happy Thanksgiving !

 

Dee

Every Day is a Blessing!

A Radio Interview !

 

Alka Agrawal and I met through the Rutgers Cancer Institute of New Jersey's Cancer Community Action Board. Alka is the general manager of EBC Radio 1170 radio located in Monmouth Junction, NJ.

EBC Radio is the largest South Asian radio station in the United States through radio,  app and website. They have over 500,000 listeners.

Alka invited me to tell her listeners about my experience with ovarian cancer and the importance of raising awareness of ovarian cancers and all gynecologic cancers during September, Gynecologic Cancer Awareness month. I was a bit nervous at first having never been on the radio before but Alka made me feel comfortable.  I shared how I was diagnosed, considered a clinical trial and my cancer treatments. I also shared my involvement in cancer advocacy.  I spoke mainly about ovarian cancer but did talk about the five main gynecologic cancers - ovarian, uterine/endometrial, cervical,vaginal and vulvar.

I was honored to share my story with the South Asian community in NJ and across the country through EBC Radio.

If you click the arrow below you may listen to a clip from my interview. Correction : The American Cancer Society estimates that ~ 19,710 women will be diagnosed with ovarian cancer the US in 2023. They also estimate that ~650 women in NJ will be diagnosed with the disease. That would be 3% not 1/3.

Dee

Every Day is a Blessing!

Ten Years as a Community and Chat

On Wednesday, September 13th the #gyncsm Community celebrated it's Tenth Anniversary as a community and Chat.

It seems like yesterday when after taking part in a #bcsm chat on Recurrence I posted this to Twitter.  

 

Shortly after, Christina, a ovarian cancer advocate in Texas and I, an ovarian cancer survivor in New Jersey joined together to establish an online community. At first we were going to concentrate on ovarian cancer only but decided that our community should be open to all women diagnosed with gynecologic cancers. So the #gyncsm ( gyn cancer social media) community was born. 

We wanted to insure that the information and support we provided was accurate. We reached out to gynecologic oncologists,Dr D Dizon, Dr R Boulay, and Dr MJ Markham who agreed to be our first  Health Care Moderators. Knowing that we might chat about mental health issues or that some topics might cause emotional distress, we invited psychologist, Ann Becker-Schutte, Ph.D. to join us. As their practices and professional activities increased for our original HC Moderators, we were happy to have Sarah M. Temkin, MD and Shannon Westin, MD, MPH take the place of our original moderators. From the very first chat we have had the support of Cervivor, SGO and Dr Matthew Katz, who helped us draft our Tweet Disclaimer.

Our community has chatted about the risks and treatments of all the gyn cancer types from the most common to the most rare. We discussed advocacy, parenting with cancer, working while having cancer, the role of the caregiver, communicating with your health care team, genetics, personalized medicine, survivorship, clinical trials and many chats on emotional health. We've had guests present on health equity, how to find a clinical trial, how to become a research advocate and so many more. Since 2014, we have highlighted research results presented at the ASCO and SGO annual meetings. And yes, we also spoke about recurrence, the topic that sparked Christina's and my initial Twitter exchange.

Our logo as well as this blog has evolved over the years with our latest version being launched at our 100th Chat in March 2023. 

 

 

Through the years our community has been involved in a number of research efforts. We have been  co-authors on several published research articles covering the needs of women diagnosed with ovarian cancer, caregiver support services, patient needs when considering a PARP inhibitor as well as a number of papers on social media, hashtags and cancer communities.  You may find links to the article on our blog's Publications page.

If you have been a part of the #gyncsm community at any point through the years we would love our feedback by answering these questions:

Question 1 : Approximately how long have you followed the #gyncsm hashtag? What has the cancer community on this platform meant to you?

Question 2: How are you feeling about the cancer community on this platform now? Do you have back-up plans if/when this platform is no longer a good fit for you?

 Question 3: What chat topics have you found most helpful? What topics would you like #gyncsm to cover in future chats?

Feel free to respond in the comment box below or on Twitter https://twitter.com/gyncsm/status/1702737477868417061

It has truly been a wonderful experience working with Christina and all our gyn oncs and supporters. This community has allowed my work as an advocate to grow far greater than I ever imagined. Thanks everyone. 

Dee

Every Day is a Blessing!